Haley Butkovich and Ben Berger are one couple of many alumni who met at Schoolcraft College. The couple recently returned to campus to celebrate their upcoming nuptials by taking some photos.
Haley Butkovich and Ben Berger found plenty as students at Schoolcraft College: a great education, amazing friendships and each other.
The couple, who met during a business class in the former Applied Science Building more than a decade ago, are tying the knot and marrying later this fall and wanted to find a way to incorporate the place they met into the celebrations. So, the couple decided last fall to utilize a classroom to take a few engagement photos.
The couple’s marriage date is Oct. 3, a date made well-known from the movie “Mean Girls.” They said they wanted photos in a classroom to try and mimic the famous scene made popular where one student asks another what day it was.
“We were like, ‘Let’s find a school, let’s ask our friends and then we thought about Schoolcraft.’ Let’s see if we can take the pictures where we met,” Butkovich said. “That’s what started that whole idea.”
A relationship that started out as friends, the two realized they had plenty in common while taking BUS 120: Strategic Selling. Berger said he overhead Butkovich talking with some other classmates and decided to join the discussion.
“She and her friend were sitting behind me. I made my way into the conversation because I was nosy,” said Berger, who grew up in Plymouth. “We started talking and when we moved to labs, we did sit next to each other.”
As they got to know each other better, romance bloomed. Life took the couple in different directions, prompting a temporary split as they pursued their careers: Berger graduated with his associate degree and went straight into the workforce, while Butkovich, a Garden City native, went on to earn a bachelor’s degree from the University of Michigan-Dearborn and a master’s degree from Cleary University.
The two later reconnected and rekindled their relationship. Today, in addition to planning their wedding, the two are finding plenty of success in their fields: Butkovich works as a human resources professional and Berger is a regional operations specialist and store manager for an apparel company.
Schoolcraft was the right place to be
The education they received at Schoolcraft College, Butkovich said, made all the difference to her. In addition to learning in the classroom, she valued the friendships she created with people from all over and spent time on campus between her classes.
“I went in thinking it was just going to be like high school. I made friends from all different cities,” she said. “I really came out of my shell socially. It was a really good experience.”
Berger, who was homeschooled for the latter portion of his K-12 education, said Schoolcraft made the transition to college better for him given his background.
He jumped right in, joining the bowling team and competing as a student athlete.
“Schoolcraft was an easier option for getting in and getting that college experience in that smaller campus feel,” he said. “I wasn’t ready to go into a full university setting.”
The connections both made during their time at Schoolcraft continue to this day. Both still get together with friends they made during their time on campus.
“We would have not probably met if we didn’t meet there. It holds such a special place in both of our hearts,” Butkovich said. “I’m getting teary-eyed just thinking about it. I met my soulmate there and I didn’t anticipate that.”
Their advice to students today? Make sure to meet people.
“Don’t be afraid to make friends outside your group, because you never know who that person is going to be,” Berger said. “I think that was one of my biggest things. Coming from homeschooling, I didn’t have that opportunity to make a lot of friends.
“Make friends because you never know who you’re going to make a friend with that might turn into a lasting relationship.”



